The weekend market liquidity declined, and I happen to have some free time to discuss something interesting. I recently came across a discussion on self-improvement, and the core insights were quite eye-opening. Sharing them with everyone.

First, let's talk about the concept of "New Year’s resolutions." Take a look at your social circle—aren’t you seeing all kinds of grand visions every New Year’s Day? Like getting rich quickly this year or achieving small goals. The problem is, how many actually follow through? Most people are just grinding away but end up setting a bunch of Flags for themselves. This isn’t a dream; it’s a status game under the influence of the bandwagon effect.

The reality is harsh: for most people, relying on New Year’s resolutions at the right moment won’t change their lives. These resolutions are essentially meaningless; the value they’re given is superficial and never align with the true conditions needed for transformation. In the end, they often fizzle out.

But that doesn’t mean reflecting on your current situation is useless. On the contrary, starting with reflection to drive self-upgrade is the wise approach.

**So where is the real problem?**

Many people set goals focusing only on superficial changes—adjust their behavior, change habits, and rely on enthusiasm to maintain short-term discipline. But in the end, they revert to their original state. What’s the root cause? Because your identity hasn’t changed.

Imagine someone who considers themselves an "ordinary office worker." No matter how hard they try, it’s difficult to break through the cognitive ceiling. Their actions always revolve around this identity. True change requires starting from a fundamental level—redefining how they see themselves. Once the identity is established, behaviors will naturally follow.

This isn’t some motivational pep talk. It’s about how, when you change your internal self-perception, external behavioral changes no longer require daily willpower. They become a natural extension.

So next time you set a goal, ask yourself: what kind of person do I need to become to naturally make these changes? The answer is often right there.